a year on

Category: Health and Wellness

Post 1 by cuddle_kitten84 (I just keep on posting!) on Wednesday, 01-Mar-2006 11:03:28

Well, on monday, it was my friend suzannah's 1 year aniversary, i really can't believe it's been that long since i posted saying i'd lost her. i really still do find it hard, no phone calls, no messages, things like that, especially at the moment are hard, but i'm getting there. I still miss her, and think of her. i don't cry as much any more, as i know she'd want me to be happy. I had a friend round on the day, and didn't react as badly as i thought i would. my thoughts still are, and will always be with, her family.

Post 2 by bozmagic (The rottie's your best friend if you want him/her to be, lol.) on Friday, 03-Mar-2006 10:41:18

Same here. I was with Sheelob that day. I will always remember how cheerful Suzannah was and what fun she could be as a room mate when the three of us were in sixth form at RNIB New College Worcester, West Middlands. That's where I first met Sheelob too. I've only met Suzannah's parents, but anyway, I've always had all her family somewhere in the back of my mind for the past year since Kay rang me up that Sunday evening and told me she'd died. I've only just come to terms with it really. The first friend I've had who actually died.

Post 3 by Leafs Fan (I'll have the last word, thank you!) on Friday, 03-Mar-2006 13:15:25

I would just like to extend my deepest sympathies to you. Stay strong and support each other, that's the best advice I can give. Maybe you could even call her family at this sad anniversary, if you haven't already done so, just to say how much you love and miss their daughter.

Post 4 by moyzey (i'm posting? huh?) on Friday, 03-Mar-2006 16:16:34

i just wanted to say that i knew Suzannah from my time at West of England and, although we wern't very close friends, I knew her well enough to know she a number of friends of her own that she had made during her time at the college in Worcester, many of which i am close to myself now. Kay, you know you can always chat to me if you feel ya wonna talk to someone else who knew Suzannah. That goes for Aledfan too, although i don't know you personally. thank you.

Post 5 by Selena Fan (Account disabled) on Saturday, 04-Mar-2006 3:15:28

Hi I'd like to say I'm sorry that you lost your friend! I lost my Dad quite recently!

Post 6 by Pure love (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Tuesday, 07-Mar-2006 10:29:44

Kay, of course I totally understand that it is still very very hard for you. It's only logical. I would find it hard if it wasn't so. From what you told me she was a great friend, and it makes me sad to read this, even I didn#T know her personally.

Post 7 by Selena Fan (Account disabled) on Wednesday, 08-Mar-2006 4:06:35

Hi Kay it's nice to meet you! Having lost my Dad I can say this is the worst thing for you to have to go through! My prayers are with you!

Post 8 by cuddle_kitten84 (I just keep on posting!) on Monday, 13-Mar-2006 11:11:16

thank you, yeah she was a diamond, never mad if she had pains, always a laugh to be around.

Post 9 by Pure love (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Monday, 13-Mar-2006 14:27:43

I know she will always live in you, Kay. You have talked so much about her around me that I would have loved to meet her.

Post 10 by chelslicious (like it or not, I'm gonna say what I mean. all the time.) on Monday, 13-Mar-2006 15:26:39

stay strong kay, and know i'm here if you ever need a shoulder to cry on.